Today, i learned little. However, a course of events today led me to the conclusion that one of the reasons Angel and i broke up was because our maturity levels were too far apart. I do not think i went through much of a phase in my experience of relationships that i would call a "high school relationship", a "high school relationship" is the attraction of two young humans. They will be able to do many of the good things that many more mature relationships have, however, what they lack is the ability to resolve conflict. Many relationships around the early teenage to early twenties fail because during a conflict, one or both of the people invilved do not know how to solve a problem.
The answer is simple, i passed this phase too quickly, and at my young age it affects me dramatically, as i would expect to go far with someone, it does not happen. The other main reason is that we are apart, and during the young relationship stage one feels the need to obtain physical affection from their other (i.e. hugging, kissing, cuddling, etc.). While i know i can wait faithfully for years before we get to be together in person, she could not, and i do not blame her, she is young, and she should go out and experience things, learn them herself.
Aside from that today was pretty bleak, tomorrow i may end up associating with my friends, but i do not know.
Beware raseriet av en tålmodig mann. it is in norwegian, look it up.
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